ch 13 p 236 I wonder why it is a dog doesn’t get to live that long, but he still has to die old. ~Anonymous

When I hear that old adage about not being able to teach an old dog new tricks, I think about my life and a new trick that I learned in my late 50’s – how to think for myself instead of blindly following the negative core beliefs that I grew up believing.

Learning this lesson started early in my marriage when my husband of three months decided he was in love with someone else.  At first I was mortified, devastated, embarrassed, and ready to tar and feather the jerk.

Once I cooled down and had time to begin processing all this, I decided I needed to write a book – to help me understand what had gotten me into that situation.   I wasn’t too far into this process when I realized I was the one who had married this guy while ignoring clear warnings that should have sent me running the other direction.  The negative core beliefs that I had grown up believing about myself turned out to the be the default programming that I kept going back to throughout my life, including while I was dating my husband.  Realizing that I could chose differently – that I did not have to keep repeating this old dysfunctional behavior gave me the skills I needed to perform my new trick – being me instead of who I thought would please others.

From the very beginning of this experience, I knew that I wanted this book to benefit women’s shelters since the women they serve go through a fate much worse than I had endured.  Most of them are not able to support themselves.  Nor do they have the emotional support I found at that time.  If they did, they would not find themselves in that situation, trying to figure out how they are going to survive.

Anyone that runs a shelter can tell you how expensive it is to keep their doors open.  That’s another reason I wanted my book to benefit women’s shelters.  One-half of the purchase price of Too Much Gold to Flush, The Gift of Infidelity goes to the women’s shelter that the purchaser designates.  Click here to purchase a copy and designate which shelter you want to benefit.

The shelters I am featuring this week are in  District of Columbia.  This link: District of Columbia will take you to the page for District of Columbia on the Women’s Shelters, a nationwide directory of shelters for women.  On their home page, you can either click on a map, enter a zip code, or scroll down to a list of states to find a location closest to you.

To check out information about the shelters in District of Columbia, click on: Washington (20)

To order Too Much Gold to Flush on Amazon, click this link.


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