Affirming a New Vision – Week 3

 I am the flow of change, and I am grateful for the gifts that shifting brings.   In order to believe he is loved, the wounded child behaves the way he thinks he is supposed to…. Gradually, the false self becomes who the person really thinks he is.  He forgets that the false self is […]

Share

Too Much Gold to Flush – Ch 10 p 160

  What are three words you never want to hear while making love? “Honey, I’m home. ”  ~ Ken Hammond Pay It Forward Book Club I’m on a mission to offer a compelling book while benefitting women’s shelters.  In June of 2009 my husband of three months dumped me for another woman.  In the devastating […]

Share

Red Flags Are Waving – Chapter Three

Chapter Three If I think there is something wrong – there is. My Inner Guide had started screaming before Rael told me about his pedophile history, but as soon as the words were out of his mouth, I emotionally shut down. His failure to discipline Jacob and his comment about me in the grocery store […]

Share

Spread the Word about Too Much Gold to Flush

 After retiring from teaching at a community college in May of 2011, I wrote a book, Too  Much Gold to Flush: The Gift of Infidelity. Three months after I married in 2009, my husband kicked me out of the home that we had remodeled together, so he could marry his first sweetheart of 32 years ago. […]

Share

A New Year, A New Love

Falling in love on the first date is highly unlikely and, contrary to popular belief, totally undesirable. If I think I am in love after the first date, I am probably mistaking initial attraction for the unhealthy part of me that is attracted to the unhealthy part of him. And what feels like love at […]

Share

Glimpses of Too Much Gold to Flush

I’m excited about a book I have available  starting October 22, 2012. Over the next 16 weeks I will post snippets from the book.  Several years ago I charged head-long into a relationship destined for disaster.  When the inevitable happened,  I was devastated.  In order to avoid future calamities, I vowed to figure out a […]

Share

The Awesome Power of Affirmations

You may have experimented with affirmations, telling yourself you are rich, wise, and good looking, but nothing happened in spite of all the hoopla about how they are supposed to produce miracles. You may have even been mindful of keeping them present tense, positive, and powerful, but they had little effect. I said affirmations for […]

Share

I Believe – My Gift and My Curse

Whatever I think about I bring about. That has a nice ring to it, but what is the deeper message? Surely just thinking about something does not make it happen. Not immediately, but given enough time it does. When I focus on a particular mindset, be it positive or negative, I look for data to […]

Share

Dealing With the Voices in My Head

We’ve all got them – these voices that speak in varying tone and volume and with a variety of messages, occasionally positive, but more often than not pretty mean. There are three categories in which to lump these voices – blame, shame, and Truth. The blaming voice supplies explanations for why whatever the problem is […]

Share